Understand The Art Of Quickie

Bare in mind to keep it less than 5 minutes. A quickie is wild, fast and furious sex minus the frills and fuss. It’s fun, it’s highly excitable and very explosive. Quickies may sound like the ultimate ‘dude sex’ but this mindless sex is just lovemaking without the timeless tease. Women usually prefer to be romanced with endless foreplay and to jump into sex minus the preliminaries is to let themselves be cheapened. Women, This is possibly a cultural condition and is taught to think that men are just after one thing. However, every sexual experience doesn’t have to be a relationship seminar. Sometimes it can be wild, abandon sex and other times, a lazy and leisurely lovemaking one.

The other reason why a quickie is not favourable is the physical hurdle a woman has to overcome in the throes of a quickie in the sheets. While a man’s penis is directly stimulated during sex, a woman’s clitoris is only aroused indirectly. Nevertheless, women are capable of reaching climax quickly, given the right idea.

Both sexes can usually masturbate themselves to have an orgasm in about two minutes. Women, who have given quickies a try, say that it can be just as fulfilling as it is for men. Quickies are relaxing and therapeutic. Rejuvenating flushes of sex during a busy day can help both men and women relax. Think of quickies as a light snack for sex, and when you have the luxury of time and energy, schedule for a full sex session. Anyway, what’s so wrong about a quickie! Like men, women too have sexual desires especially around their premenstrual cycles. Most women feel frisky, and there is something so primitive about a ‘woman in heat’. Some can be downright lusty and could well devour an unsuspecting young man in sight! This is definitely a good time to suggest a quick nookie!

Seven Ways To A Quick Nookie

1. Suggesting the idea:
   
   A little groundwork is needed for quickies to be successful so do not just jump into her knickers out of the blue. Tell her how much she makes you want her, let her know how desirable she is but be sincere. Be playful, be naughty and be coy! Always make intentions clear that it is not going to end in a full lovemaking but a fun, explosive quickie.
    
2. Mental foreplay:
   
   So you are short of foreplay time but not what’s in your brain. The brain is the most erotic part of your body and it is what goes on in there that sets the tone, makes you feel sexy and sexy and conjures up all the delicious things you do. Imagination is the sexiest turn-on of all so if you want to gear your partner up for a quick romp, sex up his imagination with your mental foreplay. Send him some erotic knickers of yours and tell him how you plan to use it the minute you meet him for lunch at your place. Then send him back to the office well appeased. Another fun idea is to sneak up on your woman while she is on the phone with mom or her boss. Let your mouth make her quiver.
    
3. Respond to your sexual urge:
   
   When your sexual appetite strikes, recognize and indulge in it and quickies give you this spontaneity and satisfying abandonment of lust. Take your clothes off and hit a horizontal plane: floor, bed, kitchen counter, or the office desk. Next, bring her pelvis up close and tight so your penis can fill her up well and thrust with wild abandonment until she goes crazy. Ejaculate. Hug and relax together. Women seem like this and become aroused.
    
4. Do It Yourself:
   
   During a quickie, everything is a do-it-yourself. You do not mean to be selfish but it’s every man and woman for himself and herself. If you are capable, you can manually stimulating yourself while caressing your partner. The whole point is to reach orgasm faster. This is a quickie, remember!
    
5. Let your creative juices flow:
   
   Have a spot of frolicking fun. Be creative and downright kinky if that is what it takes for your partner to get turned on fast and furious.
    
6. An orgasm will do:
   
   A quickie doesn’t have to end with an intercourse. It can be a session of mutual masturbation or a quick “69”.
    
7. Quickies for variety:
   
   Quickies are just another sexual activity that adds spice to your sexual activity and it is not a replacement for sex or the only way of being sexual. Make a quickie part of your sexual relationship. Occasionally, a quickie can alleviate some of the tensions like getting an erection and other sexual difficulties.

Couples who include quickies in their busy lives have the ability to strengthen their relationship. Having some sex, even if its just three quickies a week, that’s 15 minutes compared to no sex time at all. And couples who no longer partake in mutual sexual activity would start to drift apart, feeling rejected and unloved, cumulating in other relationship problems and tensions both emotionally and physically. A quickie a week keeps couples bonded and the libido happy.

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