Little Known Oral Sex Tips
For Both Man And Woman

For a man, there is nothing more exquisite than the ecstasy of a woman lovingly sucking and licking his penis, with or without ejaculation. This act of stimulating a penis with the mouth is called fellatio, and it is almost the most powerful way to arouse a man. To a man, it is the most intimate, loving, ego-gratifying, and supremely sexy gesture a woman can perform. The mouth is appealing, maybe even more than the vagina particularly because the tongue is actively used to stimulate the penis. The mouth is well designed for sexual pleasures in so many ways ranging from activities like kissing, stroking, licking, probing, sucking and penetrating.One of the functions of the mouth is eating which includes tasting and naturally, it is the recipient of a myriad of sensations such as the many tastes and scents of a partner’s body parts.

As for her, that great mouth work also arouses and produces sweet nectar, a preparation vital for intercourse. Using tongue and mouth to stimulate the clitoris and vagina area by licking and nuzzling is by far softer, gentler and more comfortable than fingers. Oral sex for women, known as cunnilingus, provides a more varied stimulation.

Some men feel squeamish about putting their mouths and tongue on a women’s genitals. It can be the same for some women are not keen on performing fellatio on their partners. Nonetheless, sometimes people don't even know what to do or have inhibitions about ‘going down’ but most people will find something new to try. After a few successful tries, many people develop a real taste for this lusty occupation. Adding genital kissing to your sexual repertoire is intensely intimate and is one of the most wonderful things about sexual intimacy. Oral sex demands some level of trust and may also contribute to the participants’ satisfaction as it implies total acceptance of each other. There is something primal about lavishing your partner’s genital area with kisses and other oral manipulation for it’s intimate and this act of ‘preening’ for some couples, is the ultimate expression for love.

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Setting The Stage

Find whatever level of privacy you need to feel relaxed. It doesn't matter what setting you choose, and you don’t have to create a scenario. Just be yourself. Some couples find it relaxing just cuddling, watching a movie at home and that could lead to a whole range of fun activities afterwards. Tumble and tickle, have a pillow fight or just start by talking and gazing into each other’s eyes. Oral sex can also be in the middle of a lovemaking session or even after an orgasm especially if ejaculation is in the mouth - it’s the whip cream on the cake’s frosting.

Preparing The Treat

When it comes to sex, especially oral sex, it's really all about being open to new things, being sensitive to your partner and communication. So have some fun, and make it pleasant too, while you explore this tasty treat.

Attitude is everything: Whether you find oral sex intensely exciting for your pleasure or you want to do it to please your partner, develop a passion for that extraordinary and mysterious part of your partner’s body. Do not make it into a chore and usually partners can pick up these mixed signals and this is certainly a turn-off.

Admire it: Discover how visually stimulating your partner’s genital can be. And crave it. Look at the hardness of his erection and savour the thought of how you going to taste it, lick it and suck it like ice lolly. Delight in its masculinity and relish the thought. For him, focus on her beautiful tool of pleasure and wonder into her mysterious femininity with your imagination. She'll appreciate your attentiveness – watch her swell and undulate, and she’s about ready to anticipate the coming attraction.
Also explore your own genital. Appreciate its texture, colour and wonder at how it reacts when you touch and massage yourself. Knowing where to assert the right pressure to give you pleasure can help you give the guidance your partner need not just for oral sex but in lovemaking itself.

Freshen it: If you have misgivings about odour and the other functions of the genital, this can be easily dispelled. The human body is constantly getting rid of toxins itself through perspiration and other bodily fluids. The male genital has folds that may trap deposits from urinal residue while a woman may have secretions, which is natural. People may feel that the tastes and odours associated with a woman's pussy are offensive. In fact, most men the fragrance of a sexually aroused woman highly intoxicating and acidic taste of vaginal juices pleasantly sweet. The scent of sex in the throes of orgasm is very attractive, almost aphrodisiac to some. Just keep an open mind. To make it fun and pleasurable for each other, keep the genital area clean and fresh.

Perhaps you can give each other an invigorating shower. Soap up the mesmerizing mystery between her thighs while she latter him all over and give him a vigorous head and shaft massage. Don't stop - this feels great! Let your imagination run amok … think about washing the inside of a bottle with a brush. Do not use soapy fingers but rinse them off and insert one or two, gently with circular motions. If this is fun, think about what you can do and how it would feel to let your tongue wander inside her.

Dress it: To add variety to your oral pleasure, include your favourite spreadables like whipped cream, ice cream, honey, syrup or even chocolate but make sure the fudge is not too warm. You can spread them over her nipples for your delight while you will make a lovely “ice cream cone” for her. For his pleasure, you can add more than a dressing by making a delightful invitation to an adventurous lovemaking snack. Make an erotic fruit cocktail by inserting little seedless grapes or strawberries drenched (to soften the fruit) in your favourite tipple or even cola. However, do avoid citrus fruits like orange segments as it may sting on delicate flesh of the sex organs. If you must have a tangy flavour, you can make him orange or lemon jelly and invite him to eat it out. Just have fun and whelp each other’s appetite!

Crave It And Concentrate On It. Focus your attention on your partner’s genital and keep a continuous movement on it using manual or, and oral message. Before you know it, you will be drooling to taste more of the most sensitive part of your partner’s body.
 

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