Mutual Masturbation

Mutual Masturbation is a delightful experience. It’s a bit like foreplay but without any expectation or pressure of having to fulfill penetration. You and your partner can experiment and enjoy masturbating each other and you don’t have to do it yourself, each of you can lend more than a hand while enjoying the pleasures and your orgasm.

If it escalates and both of you are in the throes of having a wild abandon lovemaking session, go for it! But sometimes it’s just a great alternative when neither you nor your partner is up for it. It’s ideal if a woman is with child; experiencing postnatal, or the man cannot get an erection, or when either partner is tired or ill; recovering from a surgery. Couples can just enjoy a good feeling of arousing each other, besides, couples can spice up their sex life with mutual masturbation.

Your Partner Comes First
In mutual masturbation, your partner’s pleasure is your priority. It’s a great way to explore your lover’s body like an island and concentrate on him or her, try out all that you have dreamed and learned about foreplay; stimulate your partner but try not to rush. Make it a lazy lay in frolicking between the sheets. Be coy, be kinky, be the playful kitten or be the erotic seducer. Make it into a playtime or a game for both of you to just have fun.

Don’t be selfish and make a point for both of you to be satisfied, just as you would when masturbating yourself. Think of your partner as an extension of your body. What you do to aroused him; or her, is worth twice the fun when your partner response and work towards making you have an orgasm, just as well. If your partner reaches a climatic spasm of pleasure under your skillful fingers; roll over and play with grapes or fall asleep, it’s cool.

Some couples enjoy masturbating for their partner. Whether it’s voyeurism or role-playing games, agree on what both of you want and what happens after mutual masturbation. Don’t sulk, don’t get frustrated if you didn’t have an orgasm first or any, and if you did, don’t neglect or make your partner feel left out. Compliment your lover. Let him know how you’ve enjoyed him nibbling your ears and make you quiver. Your partner will take a few notes and remember to do what you like best in the next real big romp.

For a playtime with a theme, set up your boudoir and turn it into your fantasy. Who else can make the wildest of your secret fantasies come alive but your partner. Share and have a good time trying them out. If you are both glad to add it to your mutual masturbation, put on the lights, get the camera rolling and … action!

My mind says ‘yes’, but my body says ‘no’.
Ever felt like making love to the new man in your life but you are not quite ready to take that step? Making that move to initiate sex is confusing when you are not ready for intimacy and just as awkward when sexual advances are turned down. Saying no could be misinterpreted as ‘I don’t find you desirable’, reinforcing that he or she; is unwanted or unloved. Perhaps you want to get intimate but not quite comfortable to consummate your romance or passion for your partner yet. ‘Meet your partner half way’ and offer an alternative, mutual masturbation. The etiquette is to build trust and intimacy. Allow your partner time to open up and just enjoy the closeness before taking it to the next level of intimacy. Start with clothes on petting, kissing or just cuddling up and caressing each other’s face, arms and legs. Then take an inch further, revealing more skin; losing an ounce of inhibitions each time. Soon, your partner will embrace you with the offer.

It’s an excellent prelude to greater things to come while you and your partner discover each other’s sexual needs. You may have refused sex but your partner is reassured that you still find him desirable, wanted and feels loved.

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