Seven Critical Steps To
Provide Cunnilingus For Her

Most women are shy about their bodies especially in front of an untried lover. Make her feel at ease. Even the world's most gorgeous woman in bed with you, is going to worry about how you like her body. Pay little compliments, enjoy talking to her or start with a massage and gradually open her up to trust you enough to let you down between her legs. All this time, continue to caress her hair and any other erogenous spots that turn her on while the other hand pet and stroke her beautiful pussy. Continue talking. You may want to talk to her about it. There's nothing more exciting to a woman than to know that her partner finds her delicious. If she seems reluctant or worried about odours, assure her.

Your lover may quibble at first, so prime her with some light stroking, hot kisses and promises of orgasmic delight, and she will eventually come around. Take nips tasting her as you take up the heady scent of her natural fluids. Putting your hot breath over her labia lips creates tingly sensations. This surely lets her know how much you are already going to enjoy her in your mouth, with lips, tongue and possibly more. When you finger her gently and a little more urgently and then smell, lick, suck the juice off your finger and sigh as if in heaven, she'll soon lose her inhibitions and be so relaxed. You will have her pleading for more and you can dive right in for that lusty oral treat.

Woman need direct stimulation in order to reach orgasm. How best to please her? The most her partner can do to sexually arouse her is learn about the areas, pressures and rhythms that excites her most, and each women has her own unique pattern. The most sensitive part is her clitoris and it may easily become tender so direct your attentions to the labia minora and the vagina entrance. Any licking and sucking of her lips, clitoris and the rest of her genital are going to feel just great but when performing oral sex, remember to take care with your teeth. Protect them with your lips so as not to graze or bite the delicate parts of the sex organs.

Here are seven critical steps to cunnilingus, but you can always get ahead of yourself and come up with more artful tongue techniques.

Step one: Move downwards

Make her comfortable and well relax. Ease her to recline on the bed and prop a few pillows behind her head. Be playful and don’t dive straight in for her genital but be cool, let your hands and lips roam all over her body teasingly. As she becomes more aroused, move downwards and when you are there, beat around the bush. Slide over on top of her and put your legs between hers. Use your elbows to keep some of your weight off her. Slowly work your way down her body, caressing, licking and kissing her ears, throat, sucking her breasts, and wherever she likes. Kiss and lick her lower belly and work your way down to the inner thighs and come back up again to explore her pubic mound.

Step two: Tease

Use your judgment, women, even more so than men, love to be teased. The inner part of her thigh is one of her more tender spots. Lick it, kiss it, make patterns on it with the tip of your tongue. Come dangerously close to her pussy, then float away. Tease and make her anticipate it.

Step three: Work her up

Slowly press your body down on her mound and slide it around as you move down. Let her get use to something being on her mound besides your hand and cock. When she is slightly aroused, you can work your way back to her little sex button. Lap your tongue on down from her navel to her mound as you raise her legs over your shoulders. There is something coy and thrilling about spreading open the legs of a sweet maiden; some women simply love being “taken”.

Step four: Tease again

Make yourself comfy. Rest your cheek on her mound as you continue to lick the crease between her thigh and pussy. Look up at her while you brush your lips over her labia. Gaze into her eyes and let her know how much you are going to enjoy it by giving her a smile, rubbing your cheek lovingly over her pussy. Watch for her reaction. When you see a change to one of delightful anticipation, you know she's forgotten all about her hesitancy. So what now? Before you plunge in for the treat, continue with the tease. Nuzzle your face into her and brush your lips over her pussy without pressing down on it to further excite her until you feel her wriggle and arch up her back trying to get you to eat her. When she tilt her pussy up against you. She’s begging for more pleasures to come. Now, you can start your lapping up the good stuff, you greedy boy!

Step five: Go fo it!

Even if she wants you to eat her, continue nibbling her inner thigh while her clit is quivering in anticipation. Lubricate your fingers and open the outer lips, examine them, and taste the texture of the inner side, flicking your tongue along the fleshy folds up to the clitoris. You can alternate with gentle massage, thrusting in and out deliberately to see if your partner likes it. Play with her inner lips with your lips and tongue when her clit is starting to peek out from under its cover.

Step six: Probe further

Gentle part her inner lips and explore the vestibule. Look for her meatus, the opening for her urethra similar to the opening in the head of the penis. Like you, play with it creates wonderful sensations so play with hers now using your tongue. Begin with nuzzles, then gently suck and lick it, vibrating it with your tongue. Don’t forget to involve your fingers too.

Step 7: Make her climax

Women usually masturbate by pressing a finger or fingers over their clitoris and by vigorously rubbing in a circular or back-and-forth direction. While probing her with your tongue, you can use the back of your palm to massage her mound, asserting pressure on her clitoris. Watch her undulate and slide your tongue deeper and feel the texture, move it around and roll the tip of your tongue over it. You may from time to time, want to massage her inner thighs from behind the knees up to ease the slight numbness she may be experiencing. The stimulation will be sufficient for your partner to reach orgasm. Feel her grind and writhe under you’re your skilful tongue as she climax, and she possibly both of you are ready to move to the next level of lovemaking.
 

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