Anal Stimulation For
Both Man And Woman

A gentle fingertip massage to the surface of the anus, the simplest form, is lovely, especially if you continue down a little farther towards the scrotum for him and for her, add gentle pressure into the rectum. This is called “postillionage”.

Remember that the sphincter muscles around the anus are tight and will only allow things to pass through easily when you relax and take it slowly. Neither beginners nor veterans should ever start with something the size of a dildo or penis. Begin with either: your partner's finger or a small love plug. The plug gives a unique sensation and many couples consider it an exciting accessory to the bedroom. Basically, start small and work your way up.

Pinch or blow on it, tickling helps relax the muscles and to produce more sensations insert a finger into the rectum, opt for a pinky for beginners if preferred. Before doing so, you may place a lubricated comdom over a finger or lubricate your finger with her vagina juices or lubricant. This added moisture makes it easier to insert the tip of your pinky into her anus. Make sure fingernails do not have jagged edges and that there are no infection or cuts on the finger or hand.

Slowly and gently push your finger (or plug) slightly inside the anus. Do not use force - stop at once if your partner complains of discomfort. Perhaps more lubricant is needed. Massage inside gently and deliberately with circular motions and progress to an easy in and out thrusting. The receiver may feel a bit of pain if it is the first time. Try again later.

Anal sex is not for everyone, even a finger can provide intense stimulation when it is inserted in the anus. Take this process as training for later anal encounters.

Tips for stimulating a man: stimulating the prostate gland and back passage produce intense sensations. With lubricated finger or fingers, insert them about 2 inches deep into the rectum and press against the front wall of the rectum with light downward pressure while applying firm pressure behind the scrotum with the heel of the hand.

Tips: for stimulating a woman: to help tighten up the anal sphincter deliberately, and then let it relax, remember to use gentle pressure whilst inserting a well lubricated finger and move it in and out. Using the heel of your hand, add pressure firmly between anus and the vulva.
Some enjoy gluteal sex where the man uses the crease of the woman’s bottoms as an alternative to her vagina, creating tingles all over her back down to her legs. The woman contracts her cheeks muscles and gyrate her pelvis while he thrust into there and reach orgasm. This technical proofs highly sensational and very safe.

When you have tried penetration with a finger a few times, your partner may be ready for something that is a bit larger. You may wish to proceed by being penetrated with your partner's penis or by using an anal toy. Use a condom over the penis before anal penetration but if a toy is preferred and you enjoy the feeling of penetration more than motion or vibration, butt plugs are designed specifically for this purpose. It sits inside the anus, and is not used for thrusting back and forth. One butt plug is the Big Flirt, available at intimategifts.com, made of pure silicone and features a graduated design. The texture is soft but resilient and retains body heat. You won't find a better plug and while it sits inside the anus, your partner can at the same time perform vaginal sex for a mind blowing orgasm.

For More Juicy Articles Proceed
To Sex Drive Guide Home Page